Posts Tagged ‘Coaching’

Optimism Opens Opportunity

Saturday, June 15th, 2013

Hi Everyone,

My colleagues, Chip Bell and Marshall Goldsmith, have written a great new book, Managers as Mentors (see below). Chip Bell has provided our guest blog and it ties in well with Father’s Day.

Warning…proud papa ahead! The really good-looking guy on the left is my son, Bilijack Bell. He was last December named the 2012 Atlanta realtor of the year by the Atlanta Commercial Board of Realtors. He obviously takes after his mother! The Atlanta Business Chronicle did a feature article about him. In a quote in the article, he made a profound (did I mention I was proud?) statement: “I always choose optimism; it’s just easier and allows me to be open to good things in life.” (more…)

Our Habits Are Who We Are in Life

Wednesday, July 18th, 2012

With Steven Covey’s passing this week, I’m reminded of his outstanding work, particularly the 7 Habits book which had global impact on the thinking and actions of so many. Which is your favorite of the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People? Perhaps a quick reminder might be useful. The following comes from Wikipedia. (more…)

Stay Here to Get There Successfully

Sunday, July 1st, 2012

I was about to slip more than 1,000 feet down a cliff that overlooks the Pacific Ocean. My husband Lewis and I just arrived on the island of Kauai and we couldn’t wait to hike the Nā Pali Coast with its ancient Hawaiian foot trails. The Nā Pali is on the North Shore of the island and has the most amazing views of tropical mountains juxtaposed against the navy blue ocean. (more…)

Sunday, April 1st, 2012

Leaders are encouraged to see the big picture, the vision and strategy. “I need to get out of the weeds,” is a frequent self-criticism that I hear from executives. While all this is true, many in leadership roles get busy and stop monitoring the way they behave in meetings and interactions with others. (more…)

Change: Who moved my equipment?

Thursday, March 31st, 2011

“Who moved my equipment?” I demanded to know. It was hard enough to wake up this early in the morning and put on my sweats. When I walked into the gym, all the equipment was changed around – topsy turvy – with the free weights where the squat racks used to be. The regulars and I kept bumping into each other and the equipment as we attempted to recreate our usual routines, to no avail.  As we all complained to each other about the new layout, I suddenly started laughing.  I realized how much I sounded like the now classic mouse line of “Who moved my cheese?” In this case, I was the mouse who didn’t want her cheese moved at all.... read more

Develop Detachment to Improve Your Leadership

Monday, February 14th, 2011

One of the hallmarks of effective leadership is the ability to distance oneself from a work situation and to look at it with detachment. By “helicoptering” over an issue, problem or decision, you as a leader can be more objective because you can see the situation from a less self-centered view.  When you look at what’s going on from a distance and minimize the “it’s about me” factor, you can improve your critical thinking skills and often find new and creative alternatives.  ... read more